Do you think the bridal shower is a Western concept? Wrong! India has celebrated its versions under different names and traditions for generations.
Each region of India celebrates the bride’s upcoming transition into married life. Let’s tour across India to see how different parts of the country celebrate their “bridal shower.”
Aiburobhat From Bengal:
Not all bridal shower celebrations include dancing. Some involve warmth, laughter, and mouth-watering dishes.
Do you want to know the name of this ritual? We are talking about the sweet, Bengali pre-wedding ritual called Aiburobhat. During this Aiburobhaat ceremony, the bride’s family cooks her favorite dishes and feeds her with great love.
But here comes the tempting part! The bride also receives gifts and blessings from the elders.
The Vibrant Occasions, Mehendi and Sangeet:
Of course, you know about mehendi and Sangeet—thanks to Bollywood. While most people celebrate these two events together, some may choose to organize them separately.
Why consider it a bridal shower? Why not? After all, during the mehendi ceremony, the bride adorns her hands and feet with intricate mehendi designs while the rest of her female family members join her.
On the other hand, Sangeet is more of a musical evening as the bride and groom’s families come together to sing, dance, get familiar with each other, and enjoy.
Haldi Ceremony For An Added Glow:
Though this ritual cannot be tagged exclusively as the bridal shower, many Indian states celebrate this event. It is very pampering and emotional for the bride, which is said to purify, bless, and add a radiant glow before the big day.
C’mmon, who doesn’t want to look stunning on their special day?
Gujarat’s Mameru Celebrates The Bond Between The Bride And Her Uncle:
You may have already seen Radhika Merchant’s Mameru pictures? But what is Mameru? It is a heartfelt ritual that reminds you that a niece shares a sweet and tangy relationship with her uncle, and this ritual celebrates that bond.
In this event, the bride’s maternal uncle brings gifts like sarees, jewelry, bangles, and sweets to show his love and support for his niece as she steps into a new phase of life. This ceremony is emotional and joyful, filled with love and warmth.
Punjabi tradition of celebrating relationships through the Chura Ceremony:
You are wrong if you think Gujaratis have only got that lovely tradition of celebrating the bride’s new step towards life! Punjab has a pre-wedding ritual similar to Mameru, called the chura ceremony.
The brides receive a set of red and white bangles from her maternal uncle. It marks a new beginning of prosperity and love. Sounds so heartwarming, right?
The Celebration of Mayra Looks Like A Royal Ritual:
It is a pre-wedding ritual of Marwari and Rajasthani culture that celebrates the loving relationship between the uncle and his niece. The bride’s maternal family comes bearing gifts, clothes, jewelry, and sweets.
Traditional folk music is often a part of this event. With vibrant music, dancing, and a joyous family, this event turns into a gala function.
Conclusion
Finally, we have just one thing to say. The ceremonies all over India are rooted in the same emotions—love, blessing, pampering, and joyful goodbyes for the bride to start her new journey with prosperity.
